Should I be ashamed to be bisexual?
I’m tired of the argument that LGBT or queer people can’t exist or aren’t natural because it wouldn’t make sense with evolution. There are still many problems that exist in bisexuality, Some of them do not recognize themselves as bisexual or even ashamed. Some people are afraid of the strange vision of others and are not open to being bisexual. Some people disdain bisexual or gay. No matter what, we should face up to our own sexual orientation, Accept it, Respect it.
Only people who do bad things will be ashamed, though in many cases they do not because they do not think they are doing bad things. We should not be ashamed of our bisexuality, It's just our sexual orientation, we have the power to defend our sexual orientation. It should be respected, not ridiculed. We should not be ashamed of the few that we have chosen(for straight, we are a minority). We should be proud of our insistence that our choices are not drifting away. To be exact, it should not be our own choice, It exists in itself, and we just acknowledge it, respect it, not hide it, laugh at it. So, we have nothing to be ashamed of it.
Ridicule and disrespect are often based on ignorance, Because do not understand, do not recognize, so do not respect. So do not jump in before you do not understand something. If you really are in the situation where those around you do not accept the fact that bisexuality, you can choose to temporarily not revealing your bisexual status, or stay away from these people, looking for your own circle of friends, rather than feel ashamed. Here are some tips to get you out of confusion：
1.Accept it. People are often upset about something unacceptable. Even if you are bisexual, So what? The sun will still rise, People do not turn around because you're bisexual, nor do they look at you with strange eyesight, they do not have that much free time.
2.Make friends, like-minded friends. The best solution is to put all your displeasure or doubt out. No matter, in the end, can find a good solution, as long as you say it, you solve half of the problem.
3.Go on a date. Beautiful love, people can always forget a lot of unpleasant things. If you are bisexual, you can join many bisexual dating sites for you, find a nice dating partner.
Many people accept things are a process, we should not complain, should not laugh, more should be given to understand and tolerance. And we should face it squarely, rather than being ashamed of the disapproval of others. Although threesome is popular now, not everyone wants it. The same as bisexual, more and more bisexual came out, but there are still more people oppose it. We can not change other people's thoughts, but we can stick to our own thinking.
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